Dear Blondes,
What is the quickest way to your heart…figuratively speaking?
- Heart Hunter
Dear Ginsu Knife,
Laughter and compassion. If a man can constantly make me laugh, I will fall for him a lot faster and easier than a dude with no sense of humour. Also, if he is kind and caring to others, and to animals, I melt.
- Blondie
Hello Ginsu Knife,
I’m instantly captivated when a guy shows me he’s willing to take a risk to be with me. Boldness. Openness. A kind heart. These traits amount to an all around magnificent man.
- CJ
What is the quickest way to *your* heart?
I am realizing more & more that the quickest way to my heart is to pay attention to me. I need & crave attention, and yet I am a person who doen NOT like to be in the spotlight. I need just ONE person to give me lots of attention and I’m yours. This is not the ONLY way to my heart, just the QUICKEST.
Mike
Yes, those weren’t the only ways to my heart, but certainly a couple of the quickest. Thanks for your comment, first time commenter
How’s this? I wrote this last summer for one of those ridiculous Facebook question-and-answer things.
1. Be honest.
2. Challenge me … and yourself.
3. Respect me … and yourself.
4. Be kind to my dog.
5. Be kind to me.
6. Hold my hand and kiss me in public.
7. Don’t be afraid to be yourself and say what you feel.
8. Let me be ridiculously nice to you.
Well that’s not too much to ask in the least! It’s just having all those things *and* chemistry *and* physical attraction that gets tricky
Thanks for your comment, Angela!
I don’t look for much. I’m a simple guy. But the fastest way to my heart, would be to respond with affection to all my attempts at affection.
I have a sense of humor, but I want it to just happen, where you didn’t realize that you thought I was funny, until later.
The simple gestures of putting your arm within mine, leaning your head on my shoulder when we are on the train or plane, and squeezing my hand and pulling me in close, just as I’m doing something random. Of course, the random hug, and gentle kiss will get me every time.
HAHA, “where you didn’t realize that you thought I was funny, until later.” I realized now that you’re funny, so we’re probably not meant to be together.
lol… I see that it took 3 hours to realize that.
Making me laugh = instant attraction. Slightly slower to reveal, but no less important, is thoughtfulness. And I don’t mean “oh, you were so thoughtful for buying me a gift,” but literally being full of thoughts. Not just about intellectual matters, but matters of the heart as well. Nothing grabs my heart more than knowing she has her own deeply feeling heart.
I have a weakness for cute girls with a nice smile and great eyes. Smart, interesting, fun, a sense of humor, are qualities that get my heart going. Also, a cute girl with great taste in socks gets my heart racing.
*ahem* I have no idea what you are referencing. *pulls up far too large white athletic socks with grey heels and toes*
Those socks sound great. Any chance they are just below knee high? Those kind of sports socks do damage to my heart
Also petite girls who’ll eat a cheesburger every once in a while make my heart race.
My heart also loves an outgoing, mainly positive attitude and personality.
The quickest way to my heart is through my stomach, as discussed last week.
But for real – letting me be me, laughing with me, and laughing AT me when I deserve to be laughed at.
And showing passion for something – it could be anything, but I need a man with passion.
If that passion happens to be cooking, then so be it.
Independence and responsibility, and not being overly sensitive. A sense of humor helps.